21
2007
Attitude of Gratitude
Rob Lagesse and Kami Huyse have started a Thanksgiving meme about who was most or very influential in your career. Thanks for tagging me, Kami.
For me, that would be Victor Watts. I actually blogged about Victor anonymously last year when this blog was still in Diary of an Ad Man mode, chronicling the first year of the start-up.
Victor turned my career around in the middle of the last recession. At that time, as one of the few account execs at TMP Worldwide’s Integrated Marketing Communications Program (now Monster) who could sell, I was put into business development full time. We needed business or people were going to get laid off.
But I slumped. Eventually our president got fired, and Victor inherited me. He took the time to teach me not to spin or hustle in business development, pitches and in life. Instead he showed me Dale Carnegie, Denis Waitley and Jeffrey Gitomer; folks who touted other-centric behavior.
It was more important to listen than talk, to give than take, to represent yourself accurately from the get-go. Why? My job was to build trust and faith so that business could occur. And he made me realize when I was negative, I projected it, and attracted bad results. He helped me refocus on the positive.
I closed approximately $32 million in contracts and IDIQs within one year under Victor.
More importantly, I became a much better man who could participate and give in all my relationships. I was able to be a true partner with my soon-to-be wife. And a true PR practitioner who understood what it meant to build goodwill within a community. Really, Victor helped me grow up… I am so in his debt.
Gratitude for this Year
Here are my six tags, all of whom have influenced me this year:
Toby Bloomberg was the first A List marketing blogger to shine a little of the limelight on this blog when I was still in the Diary Mode. Toby and I have a top secret project right now. Very exciting.
Brian Solis showed me some of the core tenants of social media marketing in his reviews of my initial Now Is Gone drafts. Couldn’t say it better than the acknowledgments page, but you get the drift.
Valeria Maltoni kicks butt. People say I rose quickly this year once we switched to the Buzz Bin. Valeria has risen quicker. She’s a great example of what to do right.
Josh Hallett gave me my first inside-baseball speaking opp. at BlogOrlando. He didn’t know me, and didn’t need to give me a shot. I made great friends because of this event. Thanks, Josh.
Ike Pigott (yes I know you are double tagged) is a blogger’s blogger, and adds a real pragmatic voice to both my views and the social media sphere, in general. He’s a good friend, too.
Kyle Flaherty: An early reader of the Buzz Bin, and a continuing member of my community. I think Kyle’s Engage in PR is one of the better, and more under-appreciated blogs out there.
Thank you for being a valuable part of my life. I continue to learn from all of you.
Happy Thanksgiving. The Buzz Bin will return to its normal publishing schedule on Monday.
P.S. The next major holiday (at least in my tribe) is Chanukah. A little Adam Sandler for you.


Occam’s RazR » Blog Archive » Thanks for the Influence Says:
November 21st, 2007 at 2:25 am
[...] Geoff Livingston has a story about a good mentor, and Rob La Gesse has one about the boss-from-hell who kicked his butt to Paradise. [...]
Ike Says:
November 21st, 2007 at 2:27 am
In honor of being double-tagged, I did both positive and negative influences that made me a better person.
Valeria Maltoni Says:
November 21st, 2007 at 7:57 am
Geoff:
Right back at you! All good things can come from Philadelphia ;-) I am very grateful for the warm welcome that you and so many other practicioners have extended me in the ’sphere. Thank you for reading and for the tag.
Giving Thanks Says:
November 21st, 2007 at 8:27 am
[...] like we have a terrific meme happening through Kami Huyse, Rob Lagasse and now Geoff Livingston, who has tagged moi. They are all discussing what they are thankful for and giving us some terrific [...]
Toby Says:
November 21st, 2007 at 11:25 am
Geoff - It was my honor and pleasure to highlight the great work you were and continue to do on The Bizz Buzz. Thanks for your kind words. Very excited about working with you on our top secret project ;-) Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
Kami Huyse Says:
November 21st, 2007 at 7:48 pm
What a great story, thanks for sharing.
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November 23rd, 2007 at 9:39 am
LenEdgerly.com: Thanks to Old School Master Says:
November 25th, 2007 at 10:30 am
Lauren Vargas Says:
November 25th, 2007 at 5:23 pm
Geoff,
Is there anything specific I should look for/read in the three links (Victor’s direction)above? It is amazing to see the domino effect of one’s influence upon another. The original person may never know how many people were touched and changed. Or was there ever any original person?
Geoff Livingston Says:
November 25th, 2007 at 10:47 pm
Oh yes, Dale Carnegie’s How to Win Friends and Influence People followed up by Gitomer’s Little black book of networking.
PRNewser Interview: Geoff Livingston « PRNewser Says:
November 28th, 2007 at 7:31 pm
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December 13th, 2007 at 6:28 pm
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